DVDfab has a trial player also i have used and seemed to work fine. I have the DVDfab bluray package ripper, copy, 3d SBS mkv a very complete blu ray package that supports cuda acceleration and ATIs implementation. It takes my i7 2600k system around 35 min@ 90%-100% cpu usage of all 8 threads to make a 20gb SBS MKV from a 45gb plus 3d blu ray copy of John Carter. It allows you to adjust the bitrate of the copy, so i allway make it pretty dang hi for picture quality
I have tried them all but not enough to tell you which one you should pay for.
Arcsoft total media theater seemed like the most complete one....but i tried it just this month on my bedrooms i3 2120 HTPC with a h67 chipset and a 7750 card. soon after install it was giving me a blank screen problem. Not during use. Soon after i installed it My screen would just go blank and a reboot would not fix it. I had to boot into safemode and get rid of it. Was probably a driver problem but i really am not positive what caused it besides the program itself.
2600k@4693mhz firstname.lastname@example.org p67ud4b3, 2xSuperClocked560ti SLI@965core 2400mem stock volts24/7,mounted in CM HAF922.2xHTPC's 2xi3 2120 3.3ghz dual core,1xasus LP HD6570core@850 1xHIS hd7750@1150core1325mem,55"PanyVT30