My apologies if this has been addressed before; feel free to smack me upside the head and refer me to the correct post. I'm also not very familiar with the technology or terminology, so forgive my ignorance.
Here's my situation: I have essentially "expanded basic" cable provided by my landlord (there's no "trap" on my cable line), but I have no cable box. I instead have a 32" LCD TV and a DVD recorder that each have a QAM tuner. I currently get all "expanded basic" channels plus a handful of the HD versions of certain channels (such as ESPN) but no HBO, Showtime, etc. While I've been quite happy with my DVD recorder, dealing with the media has become irritating, and I love the "click once to record" features of my friends' Tivo services. I'm wondering if I could buy a 3rd party DVR without having to pay either my cable company (Charter) or anyone else (such as Tivo) a subscription fee.
And if I did that, would the DVR be able to provide me with a guide so I can easily browse future programming and choose what to record? This seems like it would be impossible if I'm not officially getting a "service," but a friend told me otherwise. Is he right, or is that too good to be true? And if a guide isn't available, can anyone tell me what sort of interface I would have for setting up recordings? Finally, how can I tell if a DVR will work without the "service?"