What? Wrong. I'm not even sure how you got that out of either of our posts.Crayon Shin Chan wrote:So you're saying basically it's a wash, and who actually did what to whom is not really going to be an important point with any authorities that might get involved, right? Thanks, this makes me feel better.
Bensam123 wrote:Don't play the game. This is the popular person version of subterfuge. You don't win by playing, they simply drag you down to their level.
Deny it, tell your side of the story as it is, the whole truth. Don't go out of your way to point this out, only talk about it if he brings it up or you're asked. If they don't believe you then let them. This is bridge burning stuff and it's pretty obvious that people who really are your friends either wont care (as to what he's talking about) or they'll believe you.
I honestly have kept a very small circle of friends that I can actually call friends and didn't over extend myself into the 'we're friends, but not really friends' territory. And as such I've stayed well away from 'games' like that. People get in arguments all the time, it happens. There is no reason for him to start BS like that. I'm sure the dorm staff wouldn't interfere. They aren't your parents or guardians. They'll call the cops if that's what it escalates into, as any building manager would if there is a domestic dispute, but they wont mediate.
credible wrote:Don't get me wrong, we are not that cynical towards mankind but we are more than aware that there are many people who are only out for themselves and further to that we have met even less that conduct themselves as my wife and I do.
Just mention the truth when it comes up and add in how you will just rely on karma to take care of the rest:)
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