Heiwashin wrote::lol: How much are we talking to start out with a nice controller and something to learn with.*heli
An E-flite Blade CX2 is going to run you around $190. It is a coaxial heli that you can fly around the house. It is a good starting point, though there really isn't much of an upgrade path. You can get carbon fiber parts and stuff, but it is really a stand alone package. Parts are cheap so crashing it won't break the bank -- and you will crash it.
http://www.hobbyzone.com/rc_helicopters_e-flite_blade_cx_2.htm?ucroi_kw=blade%20cx2&ucroi_adid=27067&ucroi_google_type=GoogleAdWordsSearch&gclid=COvO4uvSnZMCFQYNswodoi6DwAOnce you have mastered the CX2, you can move on. By mastered, I mean forward flight and backwards flight, both tail in and nose in, sideways flight, banked turns (using both rudder and aileron), soft landing, etc.
I am just finished the step up myself. I would highly, highly recommend you pick up a simulator prior to getting a bigger heli. I picked up a copy of ClearView (
http://rcflightsim.com) and it has been worth every penny. Once you have worked with the simulator for a while, get a real bird. What you get is up to you, but I highly suggest you buy something that has a full parts selection at your local hobby shop. It is painful enough to have to shell out money after a crash. Having the heli sitting broken for a week or two while you wait on parts is adding insult to injury.
My recommendation would be the Blade 400 3D. It's the same heli Hance has, and now I have. I got mine this morning and trimmed it this afternoon. I managed to get about two minutes of fairly stable hover by the second battery pack. It may not sound like a lot, but I think Hance will back me up when I say "That's really good for my first collective pitch helicopter." BTW, if you go looking you can find the Blade 400 for $399 now. As another side note, you can fly the Blade CX2 with the transmitter that comes with the Blade 400 so in that sense it makes a reasonable upgrade path.
Some other points... Go read RADD's school of rotary flight (
http://www.dream-models.com/eco/flying-index.html) and decide if you can be that patient. Patience is the key here. Do your research. Learn how to trim the heli or find someone to help you. Definitely by a blade balancer. I'm still up in the air on whether a pitch gauge is worth it for a learner.
--SS