So, I never really came back and updated what was going on with my build... I posted over at build a pc reddit (so i could have somewhere to easily post things)https://www.reddit.com/r/buildapc/comments/dccqfd/please_help_me_figure_out_whats_going_on_with_my/
Its NOT good. not good at all. Just got another BSOD without a video card installed and only 1 of my 2 ram chips.
km:0x9c_genuineintel_stackptr_error_intelppm!mwaitidle
no idea where to go from here. the Motherboard was RMAed, and the new one has the same issues. seems like it's the CPU or RAM, but the ram passed 16 passes of memtest 86 full test suite with 0 errors.